Boys Have a Dam Problem: Examining the Faults that have Put our Boys in Crisis.
Boys Have a Dam Problem unveils a crisis few are willing to confront. Across the world, boys are struggling to mature into responsible, godly men. Like cracks forming in a dam, the issues of fatherlessness, distorted masculinity, and disengagement from education are silently eroding the foundations of biblical manhood. The result is a looming collapse, with devastating consequences for families, churches, and communities.
This book takes readers on a compelling journey to understand the root causes of the “boy crisis.” Drawing from biblical principles, cultural analysis, and practical wisdom, it reveals how the deprivation of intentional fathers, the breakdown of the family, and societal lies about masculinity have created a generation adrift. Yet, amid the growing flood of challenges, Boys Have a Dam Problem offers a bold and hope-filled solution.
Through powerful metaphors and real-world insights, the book challenges readers to repair the cracks before it’s too late. It presents a framework for biblical manhood grounded in three essential roles: laborer, leader, and lover (or affirmer). These roles call boys to embrace their God-given responsibilities through hard work, godly leadership, and deep connection with their Creator and others.
Key themes include:
- The impact of fatherlessness on identity, faith, and maturity.
- Cultural distortions of masculinity and how to reclaim a biblical vision for manhood.
- The role of discipline, affirmation, and adventurous environments in raising boys.
- Practical steps for fathers, mentors, and churches to guide boys toward their full potential.
Boys Have a Dam Problem is not just a book; it’s a rallying cry. It calls fathers, leaders, and churches to take responsibility for raising the next generation of men. It challenges readers to confront the lies boys are told, reclaim the truth about masculinity, and rebuild the spiritual, emotional, and relational foundations that boys need to thrive.
This book is for anyone who cares about the future of boys—parents, pastors, educators, and mentors alike. With practical advice and a powerful biblical vision, it equips readers to restore boys to their God-given purpose, ensuring they grow into men of faith, strength, and integrity. In a world that’s quick to redefine what it means to be a man, this book boldly proclaims: It’s time to repair the dam and stop the flood before it’s too late.
